
"There would be no way that I could express how Illysa changed my life. I
knew the moment that I saw her and heard her speak that she is the midwife I
wanted to use.
I was pregnant with my 4th child. This was going to be my first home birth.
I loved how Illysa made me feel so comfortable and in tune with my baby.
Any appointment that I had, she made me feel like I was her only client. She
took so much time making sure I was doing well physically and emotionally.
She helped me bond with the baby before he was even born. I never realized
that my doctors didn't do that. She encouraged me to take care of myself in
ways that I hadn't before. I love how she includes siblings in the
appointments. She would let them help measure, she would explain what was
going on, etc.. This meant so much to me. My kids loved going to her office
and pretended to be like her. Once during my pregnancy I had some strange
symptoms and she told me to come over to her house. This was on a Saturday,
during her family time. How amazing to be that important to her. When I went
into labor she was there within an hour (my previous births were very fast).
I was able to labor in my bedroom with my husband, while everyone else was
in the living room and kitchen. It was such an amazing experience. It felt
like it was just the 2 of us and the baby in the world. She would check on
me occasionally and make suggestions when she needed to. When it was time to
deliver, I was in the pool in the living room. I was surrounded by my family
including my 2 oldest children. Illysa and her assistant were very sweet and
would explain things to the children when they had questions. Illysa
remained calm but yet authoritative during the process. She helped direct me
to do things that would help the baby be born. As strange as it sounds, I
was never as involved with the other births of my children. I was in total
control and knew exactly what was going on. We had a small difficult
situation where my son's shoulder became stuck. She handled it so
gracefully. She knew exactly what to do and there was nothing to worry
about. She directed family members, her assistant and assisting midwife to
help in different areas.
When Maverick was born it was beautiful. We were able to just sit and bond.
She encouraged me to hold him as long as possible. She made sure that it was
an incredible moment. After the birth and at post partum appointments, she
made sure she had time with him alone to talk to him and really get to know
him. I felt that she loved him already also. I felt so taken care of after
the birth. I cannot express how relaxing and personal she is. This is how
every birth should be."
~ Tabitha Krauss
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